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Hello guys. In this video, you're going to watch four different interviews of some of the attendees at the Everybody Networks Here event this Monday. Everybody networks here. It's an organization that realizes different events across Europe where they focus on just one thing, networking and really deep connections. They also facilitate workshops in each of their events where in which the speaker is passionate about the topic. It can range from public communication to coaching to other different type of topics. In this video, I'm going to interview Oberg, also called the second level qu, a menopause advocate and coach for life after menopause for woman. Then I will interview Samantha Not. She uses her art to make people reconnect with their true essence with a eeky guy focused paintings. Afterwards, I will interview Loreno Hume, an image consultant which makes his clients to reflect in their image, their true identity and true self. And then I will interview Martine, the founder of Everybody Networks Here, so he can explain a bit about what the network is about and how he grew it to me such amount of countries by being just a solo founder. I hope you enjoy it. >> Hello. What's your name and what do you do? >> So, my name is Obj and I am in the empowering women in menopause. >> Okay. >> Yes. >> So, uh do you do workshops, coaching? Uh what's your business about? >> So, it's a workshop coaching of course a retreat where a lot of women come together and they can feel the energy. So you create kind of uh you know um a safe space so that they can open themsel and uh this is the best way actually to work with them so that they feel understood they feel seen and then they can open up to yeah optimize their situation where they are and create uh more wisdom more power within theirel and more freedom at the end. >> How did you started this? Which was the breaking point that you said okay I want to really do this? So the breaking point is actually really funny. It was uh this year in February and um this was the really breaking point. I was at an event uh woman health and uh there was uh you know the the room was filled with women you know all age you know and uh some mavericks some men who was there also and there was a panel discussion with three women and one man and there was some information cames out about women in uh in generally and also women in menopause and um yeah the only the the clinical side of women in menopause and not the other side you know the clinical side is you know the weight gain hormonal cows and also brain fog and um the other side is that women are powerful there there are a lot of wisdom in that age they know their boundaries and they are beautiful so I decided in that moment to um my mission and my vision to speak more about what women bring in the society women that age and uh less about um you know the the the other side what the society knows which is only clinical but we are human beings so and I'm myself in menopause so I can speak about it >> and um yeah that was the mission it started there actually like really started there yeah >> which is the main lesson that a woman when she has the menopause will you give to her >> uh menopause is not the end of a woman's power. It is the beginning actually because she don't have, you know, she don't get menstruation anymore. She raised children. She's now in the power in the in the in the heat of her of her being, you know, she she she knows what she know what she wants. So, she just have to remember it because it's there in her. So this is what I want women to feel when uh when yeah when they work with me or when they come out of a talk or a session with me that they feel like okay everything is possible. Age age is just a number and uh I don't listen to what the society tells me. I listen to myself because the power is in myself. The beauty is in myself. The wisdom is there. The leadership is there. So, and I am beautiful the way I am because I've been through all this. I've been young and now I can feel the new me. And just to be curious about it and not just listen only to this one side of society says, but the other side and to rediscover you as a woman as a queen. >> Do you think there is some misconception about in the society how it's perceived menopause? Yes, because the society uh has a picture of how women should be you know women should be young and thin and beautiful etc. you see also in in a fashion and um the perception of a woman in menopause is that okay she's been there done that you know she's she's obsolete no she's still there and she's uh like I said before a beautiful being a beautiful powerful woman because uh we talk about mother earth we talk about women and without us without women there's no life and a woman in her 50s or in menopause she come in this all in in this uh second level you know and the second level uh is the wisdom and the the leadership like I said so and I call this woman the second level queen the one who remember who she is she's been through adversities and she raised children she raised the society and now it's her turn to give this everything she've been through to give this wisdom to the generation who comes behind her generation of girls of women young women who when they see that those women are queens, you know, that that they use their power. So those women can give the light, can shine the light for the generations to come and to see, okay, when I'm going to be this age, I'm going to be a powerful woman because I know who I am and this is what I want to give the ladies. >> Amazing. >> Yes. >> What challenges do you have right now as an entrepreneur? Uh as an entrepreneur, the challenge is uh more visibility and uh to um yeah to to to reach out to more women and who um who see the the benefits in in uh in working with me and the benefit in um finding their freedom and um so I'm a lot in LinkedIn and I go a lot in in network uh events. And um well I just won myself the visibility award woman visibility award and yeah to to be more um to reach more people. So >> it takes time of course >> takes time but I'm sure you will >> yes because this is really important. This really important I mean I came to to Holland um in co uh I was almost 50 and um I left my boyfriend I left the country. I left my job because I bet on myself, you know, and I came here, I had no job, no signed contract, nothing but I knew I have my mindset and I can make it everywhere. And I wanted to show myself that this um yeah, the the menopause is is not uh is not the end, you know, you can still do something and you can do more because you have more. Just have to remember that you can do more. And after that I found a job and I won this award. And if I hadn't done that, if I didn't hadn't bet on myself, I wouldn't have be where I am today talking to you. >> Amazing. >> Yes. >> And which lesson would you like to give the to the audience any lesson for life? >> Look at yourself in the mirror and see the beauty, the power and talk to yourself. Say how amazing you are, how far you you became, how far you came um and who you became. And um tell yourself that you're amazing. And tell yourself that you're magnificent and smile at yourself because you're the only one who can make you happy. Nobody else. >> Okay. And any ask to the audience? Any ass to the network? Any connection that you would like to to reach? Yeah, people in uh in health, people who want to empower women. They have some uh someone who has a mother, someone who has uh I don't know uh to empower women in in in this phase of their lives and uh yeah just to reach out to me if they if they want and um if they feel the need and the necessity >> to the health sector any specific profile psychology, therapist or researcher? Yeah, psychology um um yeah HR you know so women who are in the in the phase of their lives where they are like okay I have the knowledge I have this but I'm functioning and I want to know who I am so it can be like I said HR it can be in the healthcare it can be uh a mother who raised the children and they're all out now and she doesn't know what what to do with herself and Um, yeah, women in in their 4Gs, women in power, and women who want to know more about themselves. >> Perfect. Thank you for the interview. That's nice to meet you. >> Of course. Thank you so much. >> Hello. >> Hello. >> What's your name and what do you do? >> My name is Sment and I'm an artist and I use uh my art to for transformation to make clear what is beneath the noise. Which kind of people come to you? >> Uh people who are on a crossroad who know that there is a shift but they are not doing something with the shift. There's a lot of noise around them that they cannot come to their own answers within them. So uh those people I come to meet it's like leaders, people executives, people who are very trying finding alignment in their life and are looking for their essence. >> How does your art transmit their the answers to their to their crossroads that yours mentioned? I use my 14 40 symbols and the moment I talk with people then I draw and I used the also eeky guy the reason of being the reason of why you living that's what I use to help people getting back to who they are >> how is ikiguai so explain us a bit more in detail about how ikiguai is related to to your art how do you use it >> well I use the four questions of uh what do you love and can you be paid for it? But it's more because I is more than all only the four questions. It's about your life. It's the way you live, the way uh you do things in life and take them. For instance, I was walking around and at the pavement then I saw only those tiles and then I see one seat came through with a little bit of grass and everything like you know and I I saw that I was looking at and I stopped with it. Also when the birds are flying or they're sitting and they're also talking about talking to you like you know it's the things in life that you stand still if you slow down and if you are you know using what's around you that can elevate you that can calm you that you see life because we are in a rush I don't know what kind of rush but we are in a rush going to there or we are busy with finance or of course with children of parents but this is about you recognizing who you are in the world and who you can be and if you are living your purpose so that's what I do that I can show you a step inside to who you are and then when I create an artwork the artwork you can put it somewhere in your house or in your office and on sudden days you'll see it will follow you or it will talk to you because I explain the artwork and if you are thinking about things or you have decisions to make or not even then you can see and look at your artwork and you see like hey why is it showing me this what did Sam explain to me or you got a symbol card and you can oh that's what it's meaning so it's talking to you it's a process about you who you are in your essence >> your red thread >> and I I also assume that during your sessions the your clients are also in the same uh place right and they see yourself like painting and >> well I'm drawing I I do have a video session that you can sit uh we have a teams >> and then I'm going to draw make you pick cards or no cards and then you talk sometimes people talk and then they stop because they getting their rest they are slowing down and I'm drawing because sometimes it's mesmerizing people see that I draw something and then I'm going to explain to you what I draw >> to let you get it. >> Wow. >> Yes. >> Amazing. >> And which um which are the most impressive transformations you've seen through your art? uh people crying, people recognizing uh also the people who are in awe. You know the moment you are drawing for somebody, it's very personal. It's also unique. I got a lot of paintings and I have a lot of drawings and a lot of eeky guy artworks I made for people and sometimes they reflected to me again like Sam what you made here this was about my grandma this was about this piece so I get the stories back and this is the thing what's doing the most for me is when people bring the stories back to me about their artwork >> the end you you get also something from them right with all your art >> I get I I give them energy but I get energy a lot of energy beautiful energy >> nice which challenges do you think you have right now if there are some >> uh challenging well a lot of people want to know like but okay Sam how does it work um so I I have my cycle it's like first you have to pause then I listen but you're also going to listen and I discover and you also going to discover. So it's a two-way and after the discover we align. you align with who you are and not what I'm telling but it's like you are going to recognize things and then I create and in the creation you see things from yourselves and it's an impact because at the end I believe that all the people who are aligned will make a better place in the world because when you have a lot of noise you struggle you fight but if you are aligned you know what to do. You don't struggle that much. You will find ways. >> Any lesson that you would like to give to the audience? >> A lesson. >> A lesson in your entrepreneurial journey for example or a life lesson. >> Be you. Be authentic. Live your life and be uh be enough. You are enough. >> Okay. Any ask for a contact that you would like to have from the all the network and viewers that are watching this contact. Um I love to collaborate with more people to elevate themselves their projects uh combining with who I am with my art. So with the eeky guy art make some collaborations work like wow. >> Perfect. Sounds good. Well, thank you so much for the interview. Really enjoy. >> Thank you for your time. >> Thank you so much. >> Okay. >> All right. You can move it. >> Okay. So, I'm going to pick one card and and this uh will tell me what it right. >> I'm going to tell you what it wants to show you at the moment. >> Okay. This this one. >> All right. Okay. Yeah. >> Yeah. Show it. You can turn it around. >> Oh, I love those cards. I'm going to tell you what's on the back of the card. Is >> a bird. You know what the bird says? It says freedom. >> Okay. >> So, if I'm looking at the card, you can hold the card. So, what you see is this is freedom. You have your inner circle. This is you in the middle and your friends and family are there at the background. You do your do you and then you see here is a stairs and also a gate. So for you the next level because you are in the growth. You're beautiful from the inside and the outside and you are growing. Sometimes it's hard on the way that's why you have that black uh petal but when you are growing you keep on shining who you are. You are beautiful from the inside and the outside. And if you start growing, even if it gets hard, just keep being you. And then the freedom is all around you if you are following your authentic path. >> Okay. Yeah, that's something that I'm starting to know. So that's good. It makes sense. >> Amazing. >> All right. >> Great. That's Hello. Hello. What's your name? What do you do? >> My name is Lorenzo Hommet and my company called Image by Colors and Image by Colors is a company for coaching for also for trainings about image, color, styling and performance. >> Okay. >> Yeah. And what I'm doing I helping CEOs, I helping entrepreneurs with their first impression because uh the first impression is most of the time a stable impression. So I help them to to to be that that is for you very important that it is a good good impression. >> Which kind of clients do you get? Do you receive? um a lot of CEOs but also leaders leaders um that they know okay what is my ambition what is my vision and all the things and how to um perform myself that's kind of clients I have women female everything which are the most impressive transformations you had I can imagine a lot of leaders didn't look thought about their appearance when they were grinding uh right and Then suddenly they have to pitch. >> Yeah. Yes. But but also you you know when you are in in a company and you have um um 30 years or most of the time a lot of years you do the same thing every day every night and you don't have people around you that you can mirror you know in in a company and then they um after that they look after viewers okay is this is this what I have to do till my dad you know and uh then it is so important that you have people around you have intervision or other things because if you in your own bubble, then is that your truth? And if you people have your people surround you and to uh hold yourself accountable for things and all the and all the things what you're doing then uh you can grow and that is also my um opinion because um uh five years ago I started also with my personal development and I see a lot of things you know most of the time men that they don't want to talk about their feelings and um I was there also this I know and And if you can go there with start with your feelings. Um sometimes I was crying also you know because and you know a man cannot also you have also a lot of things where you have to uh go through and uh that helped me to to be the man who I am now and that I also use in my coaching. which are the main things that entrepreneurs do not take into account when they dresses themsel themselves. Yes, most of the time if they um um you know it starts from the inside that that's that's the first it start from the inside and um uh it's so important that you aware when when you stay on stage or if you uh talk to to people that you know okay what kind of clothes you wear but also um I say also um uh walk you talk you know there also your clothes is important but also who's your your tone of voice is important all these thing that I'm learn people that you be aware about it >> so you also help with communication also their personal development it's like a for complete >> your non your unfortable communication is not only your clothes but is also how you walk how you how you talk how you treat people how you give people a hand that is image you know is not only in the clothes but image is also that people found themselves uh comfortable you know and what what are you doing that people came to you go to a coach and and um then you have a lot of coaches you know and uh then uh for me important what are you doing that's um I make a decision to say okay I want to that you coach me then maybe you do a lot of things that uh you be authentic that I go by Do >> you a little bit know what I mean? >> So you you want them to show their image to show their true true themselves, their authenticity. Yes. >> And that's what they will make them. >> Yeah. They have to cut it. >> I will cut it. No worries. >> No, but it is very important that you you still stay authentic. In my profession there are a lot of female but are maybe I one of uh I'm the only one uh men in this uh at that use image color style image performance and that is one of my unique selling points and I'm also a musician so also I know also on stage how you perform yourself and that is an totally different uh with clothes and everything um than when you are on stage. age or when you uh leading a board or anything, >> how did you start it? >> Um well, I was modeling in my 20ies. That was what you asked. I was modeling in my 20ies and um I um go to Italy, in Spain, in in London and everything. And then one of my friends who I was modeling in those days, he told me, "You have to do something about image consulting." So, okay, what is that image consulting? Because in the Netherlands um if you you dress all the things that why you you know but when you go to Spain or in Italy you know the man female they dress nice every day is a party you know and he's a image consultant said okay maybe is is it something for me so uh there was um um men and women they were they had all the banking in in uh the Netherlands they were honorable was the first suppliers uh from that uh that company. And so um on the job they learn me this uh this job two years every day. I see a lot of banking people came and then um then I was in those days I was a junior um image consultant and they help me say okay what you see see the eyes and you you learn also to be to um uh to also look further than also the clothes and everything you know also okay what is the profession what are what are they doing um what kind of car they do so concept conceptual um also thinking you know and then uh also to write down a a clothing protocol that uh when something in your company when people coming in your company that you can give them a book this is this is our protocol and so you have to use this and so that's then take it or leave it you know so um and I was also project manager in those days so they um give me also the opportunity to also to make some um um protocols with the boards of the companies and so I start from 2009 and um so till now. >> Nice. Amazing. >> Yeah. >> And what challenges do you have right now? >> Um you know uh we had a very hard times a few years ago the co time. So you see a lot of entrepreneurs they stopped but also a lot of entrepreneurs they nowadays they also uh their self-esteemed and and a lot of things they struggle with that so uh in my coaching for me is also um u I help them with with uh I have some some new things some some test personal power test what I'm doing with a client and um then we going to look what's are the the things where we can start and from that from then we build it up further to help them with their performance their clothes their style and that they can can uh yeah do their work further >> and uh that is one of the things what what I'm uh I'm still looking for uh but I'm looking also for um to go to um uh international uh to will develop my brand. That's one of the things entrepreneurs that are starting to to care about their image right now. That's what I understood. No, but also my my own company, my company is image by color and I'm I'm living in Amsterdam, but I'm based in Hilverson, but uh I do master classes and everything through the the whole Netherlands and all the things and also online and but I want to to go uh international and I I like uh to to travel. So I like to travel to to Madrid >> to Yes. It's your country. >> My city. >> Yeah. Yeah. your city Madrid um but also Italy, Rome, um Milan also and London and um this is what I'm doing this for everyone you know because uh if you have if you talk about image image is what uh uh you and and I everyone needed okay and so also image is um you have image and identity identity is um um how do they call it in English? Um your your self uh your self-image is identity and image is how people see you >> how people see you and for me it's important that identity and image that it's is a synergy. >> Okay. Any lesson for the viewers that are watching this? Um be authentic and um um self-development is very important. If you want to to stay, you have to develop yourself uh every day. >> Every day. >> Every day. >> Okay. And any ask to the audience any connection that you would like to have from the network that is watching this? Um yes, if you want to follow me, I have my my my website is image by colors and uh monthly I have also um a masterclass >> and then also it is a little bit also with network marketing because you you see also a lot of other entrepreneurs or sometimes people who struggling also with uh things and and you have to know that you are not the only one because there are a lot of other people they struggle also with a lot of things. So, um, follow me and and, uh, um, >> to connect with more people that you can help. >> Yes. >> Sure. >> Well, thank you so much for the interview. >> Thank you. >> Thank you. >> Hello. Hello. Oh, hello. Oh, >> Martine. >> What's What's your name? >> My name is Mortang. >> And what do you do? >> I'm the founder of Everybody Networks Here. >> Explain me what what does Everybody Next Force do? >> What Everybody Networks here does. uh we create um workshops and uh international networking events for um experts and like-minded professionals. >> Okay. How did the the project started? The company started >> how it started? Um it started yeah pretty yeah I would say almost naturally but it's um I was actually looking for my own uh job. I lost my job and um to be really honest I couldn't be bothered to sending out um called applications and CVs and uh my idea was to fight my job through a networking event and then a networking event that I would organize myself because then I can set the the team I can set and I can learn something new also while doing it. Never organized an event and um yeah, so that's how it started. Um and um and I keep continue doing it and I got more opportunities u coming my way along the way in different cities, different countries and um so this is now um yeah I'm not sure I would say uh what uh what I'm doing uh everybody networks here. Yeah. Which is the the biggest factor you you think that has brought you to make these events for hundreds if not thousands of people along the way? What made me do it? >> Cons no the biggest driver consistency virality which is the the thing that you think it's >> yeah it's about uh keep on showing up >> me showing up all the time doing it again and again and again continuation repeat learning from um previous events try to improve them um yeah this bit I'm trying to Yeah. >> And has social which which social media are you? Instagram, LinkedIn or >> Yeah. So mainly LinkedIn um and uh also Instagram but to be really honest um I actually copy my LinkedIn post directly to my Instagram post to Instagram. So it's the exact same content. And I know marketing gurus out there maybe think this is not the way to do it but um I just don't have the time to u to do it otherwise. >> Which kind of workshops uh and guests we can expect in one of your business? all kinds of uh for me it's very important that the that the host uh the workshop host is very passionate about the subject that this person is talking about that's really important for me because that will uh that enthusiasm people will see this and feel this and then you normally or what I experience is then you will get like a nice workshop and Um uh it doesn't matter what the subject is, what it is about. >> How did you get this? We are in Zoku Amsterdam. How did you get this spaces? How did you approach to such a company and ask them about doing an event? >> Yeah. So Zoku is not only in Amsterdam, they're also in Paris, in Vienna and Copenhagen. So I started doing these events with Zoku in Copenhagen. And it was uh me approaching them and asking them, hey, you have this space here. can I can I do this event here? So, it's very much about me approaching them. Uh this is now one and a half year ago. Uh more to two years ago, I think. Yeah. >> And what's next for everybody next year? More cities, different formats. What do you expect in the coming months or years? >> Yeah. So, um the last one and a half years. So one and a half year ago I made the decision to go all in with everybody network that works here and my plan was to create as many events as possible in different cities, different countries. I've done this now and I have a lot of learnings from this uh and I've the community becomes bigger also. Um, and now after the summer, um, I'm going to think about the next step. And the next step, not know, I'm not exactly quite sure how this could be, but it has to do a lot with it has to do because at the moment I'm doing everything by myself. Um, I do have support from some people who are helping me in the different cities, but uh, also not every city, but um, I have support from people, but I have to ask maybe for more support. So for example uh I've now recently only recently starting with uh uh I have an accountant or somebody is looking into the financial part of this uh what I'm doing and uh I've only recently started this so I'm going to um yeah outsource more things so I can create more events and I can make this uh community even bigger. >> I see. What challenges do you have right now? Yeah, that I'm a one one man show and uh I'm my own bottleneck. Uh this is how you say it. I'm um um because I want to make this bigger. I think that um uh networking and inerson networking becomes or is already so important and will become more important uh in the future coming years. Um and um yeah, I just want to make this bigger and see how far how far I can go with this. >> Is there any region or city that you think they are more social and they network more? Do you have more attendees? >> Um yeah. Yes. Uh so uh in um so when I do the events in Switzerland I have uh the intendency is quite high uh but if I do it in smaller cities maybe in the Netherlands then it's not so high but it doesn't matter so much the energy most times the same or I try to make it the same at least and um it doesn't matter if I'm with five people or if I'm with 50 people it's all about the opportunities that comes out of these events and it doesn't matter so much like with how many people you are. Um so that um >> any lesson that you would like to give to the viewers or the from your entrepreneurial journey >> listen to your gut feeling >> and uh we also just had a workshop today but but it is very true and trust trust trust the process these kind of things I keep telling myself I'm also not sure all the time with the things that I'm doing I'm also learning by doing, right? I haven't studied for this. I have Okay, I've studied marketing and law, but I've never studied event marketing. Um, I just started somewhere and I showed up. And when you show up and follow your uh your gut, amazing thing can happen. >> Wow, that's really nice for myself. >> Amazing. >> But but I think it's really true. I think it's really really true. >> Amazing. any contact that you would like to get from uh the post from the network. >> Sorry. >> Any contacts that you would like to get from the post or from the network? From the video, from the audience >> from the audience. Um >> um any specific one that you will say, okay, this person would be really interesting to be in my event. Everybody is welcome first of all at my event. So there doesn't I don't have one particular person. Uh everybody should feel welcome at my events. Um, but I'm always looking for awesome workshop hosts. I'm also uh looking for partners who would like to partner with me on doing events together with me. Sponsors back to partners is like a partner can already be if you have like a um a space uh an event space or maybe somewhere in your office you have space where I can host my events, right? So that I can actually increase my cost and put the ticket price also down so that more people can actually network. Uh I'm also very uh we're also looking uh to to speak with these uh people these partners. >> Perfect. Well, thank you so much for the interview. >> Yeah, thank you so much for having me and uh yeah, thank you. >> Have a seat. Thank you. Thank you.